As a gay man or lesbian: could you help me with the following few mini-questions, please?

Does he go to gay bars for group sex, which is typical in urban cities with large gay communities. Is he a young guy with an older man as a sugar fix. If e had a normal life not related to his sexuality, there would be no need to portray as a man with a sexual orientation of homosexuality. You would not portray a pedophile with a normal life, unless the pedophilia was part of the story. You can only fool little gay teens.